1. “Hey, are you busy?” or “Are you doing something?” ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.
2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
3. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they’re going to say so there aren’t awkward pauses, but once he’s on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.
4. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile when they’re attracted to them
5. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.
6. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they’re going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.
7. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
8. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.
9. Don’t talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.
10. Guys get jealous easily.
11. Guys are more emotional than they’d like people to think.
12. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind..” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he’ll assume he did something wrong and he’ll obsess about it trying to figure it out.
13. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
14. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.
15. Girls are guys’ weaknesses.
16. Guys are very open about themselves.
17. It’s good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don’t let him wait too long.
18. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
19. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
20. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
    
21. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.
22. Guys will brag about anything.
23. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.
    
24. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn’t notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.
25. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy’s confused, then we’re all confused.
26. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.
27. Try to be as straightforward as possible.
28. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be mature and grown up.
29. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.
30. No matter how much guys talk about anything-adult, personality is key.
31. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
32. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.
33. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he’s probably faking it and is spazzing inside.
34. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.
35. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me.”
36. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
37. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know something’s up.
38. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you’re with your boyfriend, he’s probably jealous and likes you.
39. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he’s definitely thinking something.
40. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
41. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
42. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
43. Don’t be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.
44. Guys like everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.
45. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.
46. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.
47. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.
48. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl’s mind for a day.
49. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He’s just too stubborn to admit it.
50. Not all guys are stupid. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents ALL of us.
51. Guys don’t like girls who are too skinny.
52. Guys love it when girls talk about themselves, they always are thirst to know more about you.
53. Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into love with a guy , like whether it’s a one time deal or not .
54. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to. It may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unnoticeable tell them about yours.
55. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.
56. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it, it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.
57. Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn’t intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that after you let him know a couple times.
58. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.
59. Guys are always doubtfull about the one he loves most, bcoz he doesnt want to loss her.
60. Once guys are involved into a serious relationship with a gal, its almost impossible to make him change his mind by anyone except the gal.

A student asks a teacher, “What is love?”

The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big Wheat, but he wonders….may be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one… but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, “…this is love… you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person….”

*”What is marriage then?” the student asked..  The teacher said,

“in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, “this time you bring back a corn…. you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get…. this is marriage.”

Bill Gates’ Speech at a High School about 10 things they did not and will not learn in school. He talks about how feel-good & politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world. This is one of the reason why America is ranked lower in educational qualifications.

Rules :

1. Life is not fair – get used to it!
2. The world won’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.
3. You will not make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won’t be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.
4. If you think yourtecher is tough, wait till you get a boss.
5. Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity.
6. If you mess up, it’s not your parents’ fault, so font whine about your mistakes, learn from them.
7. Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they’ll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn’t bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.
8. Life is not divided into semesters. You don’t get summers off and very few emmployers are interested in helping you find yourself. Do that on your own time.
9. Television is not real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.
10. Be nice to nerds. Chances are you’ll end up working for one.

He will have to learn I know that all men are not just all men are not true, but teach him also that for every scoundrel there is a hero. That for every selfish politician there is a dedicated leader. Teach him for every enemy there is a friend. It will take time I know but teach him also that each dollar earned is more valuable than five dollars earned.

Teach him to learn to loose and also enjoy wining. Steer him away from envy if u can. Teach him the secret of quiet laughter. Let him learn early that bullies are easiest to lick. Teach him if u can the wonder of books but also give him quiet time to understand everything in life. To ponder the eternal mystery of birds in sky, bees in the sun, and flowers in the green hillside. In school teach him it is far better to fail than to cheat.

Teach him to have faith in his own ideas. Teach him to become gentle with the gentle and tough with the tough. Try to teach my son not to follow the crowd when everyone is getting on the band wagon. Teach him to listen to all men but teach him also to filter all he hears on a screen of truth and take in only the truth that comes in through. Teach him also to laugh when he is sad. Teach him there is no shame in tears. Teach him to scoff and cynics and to beware of too much sweetness.

Teach him to sell his brawn and brain to the highest bidders, but never to put a tag on his heart and soul. Teach him to close his eyes on the howling mob and to stand and fight if he thinks he is right. Treat him gently but don’t cuddle him, because only the best of fire makes fine steel. Let him have the courage to be impatient. Let him have the patience to be brave. Teach him always to have subline faith in himself because then always he will have subline faith in mankind.

This is a big order but see what you can do. He is such a fine little fellow MY DEAR SON.
I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH.